And there are many sad stories behind
the husbands, wives who are “playing harmfully” with their families’
happiness… Usually, after “solving the case”, finding that the customers
still have the opportunity to come back together so instead of
encouraging the customers to sign in a divorce form, many private
detectives have become love consultants and made many couples solve
their conflict to come back together and then together cultivate a happy
Forgive husband’s first affair ...
Having been received many cases related
to adultery, Mr. Do Hung – employees of a detective office in Hanoi,
said, many women have been shocked when they discovered their husband
having a lover so they have made everything”um sum” by
intimidating and even beatings, stigmatizing the “ third” or trying
to have defamatory of her husband … All these ways just make their men
have bad feeling to them, feel angry because of the what so called: “
loss their faces”, and if later , although he returned, it is difficult
to maintain a happy family.
Hung has involved many cases of
reconciliation adulterous spouse, who makes a happy family in danger of
collapse. Hung, particularly, still remember the case bringing peace
for a couple whose the wife suffered from cancer but hired private
detectives twice to track her husband of adultery. With all the
convincing evidences provided by the detective, the woman beat out a petition for divorce.
However, when he realized she was still
in love with her husband Mr Hung has advised his customers and
ultimately help them heal the marriage which is in danger of collapse.
Hung retold : “One morning, a woman named NHI in Linh Dam, Hanoi came to the office detectives to ask the private detective to
track her husband to see if he has continued his adultery. Her kind
face filled the post of being tired, anxious. She provided all the
information about her husband and hoped for our detectives to quickly find out the truth to help relieve her sorrow, frustration inside. “
In fact, year ago, Nhi and her husband
had a happy family life with two daughters. She loves him and he was
really a thoughtful man, paying attention to his wife and children.
Moreover his work time is very accurate.
On his days off, he was always at home,
occasionally, went drinking coffee with friends. Then suddenly,it became
difficult to understand why he changed dramatically. He often left
early and came back late as well as neglected his wife and his
children. Suspected her husband having a misstreet out, she hired detectives to track her husband. Upon seeing the photos and clips recorded by the detective husband having sex with another woman.
Inspite of this extreme pain, she did
not make fuss about that, but tries to ignore the fact, accepted his
coming home at 3am every night. She just tried to reveal her dairy in
which along the lines were blur of tears of mood that she expressed
her suffering seeing her husband who had been no longer taken care of
her as before, and her fears that he had a new lover.
Reading the diary, perhaps her husband
had understood all that his wife’s heart so he had gave up his worse
routin, instead, he turned in to a good man in the house. She smiled,
thinking that he had changed. However, about two months ago, she happen
to read the message in his phone, a message only came up with three
numbers “392″ and sent from the number which he stored under the name of
She knew that the 3 figures meant “I
love you”. Her heart was once again wavy which led her , again, wanted
to ask the detective to follow her husband to know the causes to relieve
any doubts. If the result showed that her husband was in adultery , she
would not try to suffer and tolerate him once more, but would
definitely divorce him, the man of adultery.
This time, in charge d of group of detectives, Hung and his men scheduled to investigate
and monitored Nhi’s husband very carefully. However, a week went by
and her husband showed no signs of suspicious. Hung intened to end
the contract and inform Nhi that her husband absolutely had no illicit
relationship with a woman. Nevertheless, on Saturday of that week,
the detectives discovered her husband had some unusual signals. After
the office hours, he did not go home as usual but turned into a hotel.
About five minutes later, a female
colleague followed up. Quickly, two detectives came right after and
rented the next room. By professional measures, Hung’s group had
obtained convincing evidences of adultery to report back to Nhi.
When the detective office informed
Nhi to come to receive the results of their work, such as heaven and
earth collapsed beneath her as she was once again saw the pictures, the
videos of her husband expressing love to his new lover. Nhi was really
“shocked”, her tears fell pouring. She had no idea that he dared to
betray her again.
Previously, she was healthy, she also
has enough confidence to change him but now she knew that she had
cancer, she suffered from so much pain and know that she no longer had
the patience anymore. Cancer pain tortured her every day but the pain
was not as large as the pain that continued to betray by her husband.
With the feeling of Shortfalls, dizziness, resentment of anger, she
wanted to the office to beat that girl, and made her husband lose all
She stood up firmly with all the anger,
drawing from the bag a divorce petition which had been available for
typing on the table and pulled out a pen to sign it.
Happy sprouting in pain
With professional experience, Hung understood her present psychological
feeling, so he tried to run all of arguments to calm her down and
suggest she should re- think to chang her decision because through her
expression, Hung knew that she still loved her husband and their
children. If she had no longer loved him, surely she could not have
forgiven his infidelity from the first time. The mistakes of her
husband might have probably been his very temprorary throb.
If she divorced her husband now, not
only her children would certainly suffering, but also herself with the
cancer would not have any one to rely on to perform the coming
Hung is also advised her not to make
fuss about this problem, because if she made fuss on this, her husband
with the nature of the man would feel difficult to return and It only
made him be pushed away.
Not only consulted to help the woman
understand the problem, Hung also played a role of a doctor at the
hospital to call to notify her husband that Nhi was suffering from very
serious cancer, the hospital had asked her to tell her families to
consider whether or not surgery but the hospital hadnot seen her
Understand the suffering of his wife who
had been suffering too much pain for a long time and fighting against
the serious illness, the husband felt extremely guilty. Although his
wife tried to stay at her mother’s house to avoided meeting him but he
did not give up, he even had to get down on his knees to admit his
mistakes and promised to change and build up for the family.
He also admitted that both times he had
tried to hide her the relationship with another female colleague who
was so pitiful woman and loved him so much. This colleague accepted to
be “the third” and would be anonymous, just to be with him and promised
that she would never break his happy family. With the sympathy of the
man, added a little greedy heart that made him could not hold himself so
finally, he had agreed.
Last time when he read her diary, he had
understood that she knew about the ambiguity of the relationship so he
had firmly stopped going out with the colleague. Nonetheless, by every
day contac at the agency, the message of suffering and vulnerability
from the colleague plus the fact that his wife became increasingly
apathetic in sex (because she had cancer that he did not know) that made
him, again, could not control himself well infront of the beautiful
female colleague. And everything just happened again.
Now, he recognises that his wife is very
tolerant that once had forgiven him and even hided her illness because
she did not want to worry him, he completely regrets.
He promises that he will end the
relationship which so called “temprorely love” and will change his phone
number, will request a transfer agency and become a solid place in her
near cancer surgery. Bursting in to tears at her husband’s honesty, the
heart of the woman becomes weak again and she decides to forgive him.
Nhi’s happy family was seemingly about
to break now is healed back. Thanks to the advice of private detective,
the wife with serious illness is no longer an odd shadow on her journey
to confront the pain of illness.
Hung said: “The woman regaining her
husband who was cheating her to fall in to adultery sometimes is like a
war in which the wife must overcome her personal pride, her injury to
preserve her own family. Men do not often exchange their family just
because of the unofficial love. They are also anchored by other
things like the kids, the responsibility, the promotion … So, if the
wife understands on her husband’s psychology accepts to forgive him ,
she will avoid the painful divorce. “
Like the case of Ms. Nhi, without the in
time intervention, counseling of the private detective like Hung, her
happy family is now probably broken.
After successful surgery, Nhi and her
husband came to the private detective office to thank the detectives
and their services. The air of weakness, and illness has disappeared,
Nhi now is a woman with joyful and radiant face. We can see that it is
by the enthusiasm and the “mind” in the profession of private detective
like Hung that has helped her family through the “storm”.
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